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This guide to texting addresses the basics—write clearly; be yourself; be direct; double-check your text; follow up if you don’t hear back; be careful with spell check and dictating; write out words, not emojis; and respond promptly.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJfXiG4Kq5s
Texts to send to make him smile like an idiot…
“You’re such a fine snack, I get hungry just by looking at pictures of you.” “Are you missing me yet? “I keep getting distracted at work because I can’t stop daydreaming about you!” “I was going to play it cool and wait to text you, but I just can’t resist talking to you.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zq8VSWAbNts
You should text him first if, you’re reaching out to him to genuinely connect and communicate with him. If for any reason you’re texting him based on worry, fear or anxiety. Such as, trying to “keep his interest” or manipulating him to do something for you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=em1-F2FgHjo
Don’t put too much pressure on new relationships.
One of the reasons a lot of guys are shy about talking to girls is because they tend to idealize them, and to think that every girl they have a crush on or talk to is “the one,” or is this absolutely perfect, gorgeous person that they just have to be with forever.
You can start simply by saying something like, “How was your weekend?” or “Are you enjoying the party?” Really listen to the answer, and then ask meaningful follow-up questions that show you were paying attention.